Feeling like an outsider?

More often than not we have experienced the feeling of being left alone, us versus the world, no one to stand by us; this feeling has probably struck our hearts more than once and we all know its deep piercing pain and sorrow.  It feels like your insides turned to ice and betrayed your own soul.  Being an outsider is not an easy task, it’s not something most of us can just shrug off and push on by.  We struggle to get noticed; we often fight with our self over simple concepts. When we become the outsider we try our hardest to fit in, and that is where we make our biggest mistakes.  Life is not about fitting in, we shouldn’t need to struggle to try and fit in.  When we try too hard to get rid of the feeling of being an outsider we often push ourselves into what we originally feared the most, being someone we are not.  Instead of trying to overcome this feeling of pain, this desperation to be wanted, we should just be ourselves.  We will always have a group we can fit in with life, sometimes we just get separated from it.  It’s like a pack, animals and humans alike have packs we fit in with, when we get separated from them we try to fit in with another one in an attempt to be longed for, we become someone we are not in an attempt to get away from the feeling of being alone in life.  Don’t worry about being the outsider, we have all experienced this pain and sorrow, instead be one of the few who doesn’t conform to it and stay the way you are.  You will find a group eventually and it’s better to be part of a group that understands the real you then part of a group who knows nothing about you